Saturday, December 6, 2008

Oh my God...


The context of my KT's poem is astounding to me...someone decided they hate me enough to write an anonymous letter telling significant lies about my personality and the way I do my job...they sent this letter to all of my supervisors...the school board and the superintendent... plus anyone else they felt "needed" to know about what a wretched school principal I am...all so I will not be transferred to their school, a rumor that has absolutely no truth to it...the behavior they described was also "reported" to them by the way, not witnessed. So, in other words these cowards are trying to keep me from another job...anonymous people trying to "bully" my employers into not giving me a job because THEY HEARD I was not what they wanted. Are they even who they say they are...or is it some little worm worried that he/she might have to do his job now because someone told him/her that I actually hold people accountable?? hmmm...
So...here I am experiencing the seven stages of 'This is Bullshit". I saw the letter and at first I couldn't believe it...then I denied it...then I felt responsible for it...then I cried and cried over it...then I was so very sad about it...then I got so freaking angry about it...and now...
Now, thanks to my KT, my Billy, my family, my colleagues and my friends I realize that anonymous letters are cowardly letters sent by people that are afraid of something and most likely a million somethings and choose instead to be faceless bullys harming honest hard working people like myself...they are people that do not know how to present themselves and their agendas to others, much the way I do every day in my job. They are absolutely not worth my time, my energy and certainly not worth losing my self respect or self confidence to...I do NOT have to justify myself nor defend myself to anyone...EVER...
Don't they WISH they had a daughter like KT to know and understand and love them the way she takes care of me...don't they just wish...they cannot have her...
So, if by chance you are one of my haters and bullys and you are reading this...you can bite me...thanks for listening.

4 comments:

Joyce said...

Do you want me to beat them up for you? I can't, I am a lover not a fighter. But I will stick by you always. kisses to both of you.

Joyce

KT said...

look how well we worked through that...good times...

gina said...
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gina said...

WOW I had no idea that happeneed. So sorry you had to deal with all that. So happy you can move right through it.